It’s been a while since I have written a new blog post and if I’m to be completely honest, I’ve been a little scared. Scared and scarred both in about equal amounts. I’ll elaborate more on that at another time.
Most importantly, I’m writing again because tomorrow is the day one of my younger sisters is undergoing her prophylactic bilateral mastectomy. Elle (a truly Super Sister) is 18 months younger than me, she’s a brilliant mother, a wife to Ben (they are childhood sweethearts) and she’s been a loyal follower of this blog since it started in January last year. I owe it to Elle to start writing again, especially given she is one of the BIG reasons behind me starting it all in the first place. Elle is the super cute blonde one on the right in this photo…..
As her older sister, I always wanted to ‘be there’ for Elle, so I’m hoping that in some small way, sharing my blog has helped Elle reach this day – the eve of her own surgery. I know she loves this photo of us all dressed the same, they were our most favourite dresses. Elle (the middle sister) is in the middle below….
Elle has always going out of her way for anyone and everyone! She is the sort of person who would give away her last dollar or her last meal, Elle is the first to put up her hand if you need something and she is forever helping other busy parents when they need a helping hand. Tomorrow is a BIG day for Elle and I’m excited for her to finally be here.
Elle doesn’t know I’m writing this blog tonight about her, so I won’t share anything too personal without her permission. One thing I will share is how proud I am of Elle. You see, Elle bravely stripped off for me a year ago to reveal her breasts in a family portrait style photo I posted in an earlier blog. I had this crazy idea to help me when I was nervous about posting my own breasts on the blog and I somehow managed to convince all of the girls in the family to share a photo of their breasts with me for the family portrait. Check the photo out below…..
Statistically, 5 or 6 of the 7 women pictured here are likely to be diagnosed with breast cancer in their lifetime. With my breasts gone and Elle’s about to go, we are both beating the odds and cheating an almost certain future breast cancer diagnosis.
Tomorrow as Elle undergoes her 8+ hour surgery, we will all be thinking about her and hoping for a smooth and trouble free process. Elle’s surgery is more complicated than mine, with her having the TRAM Flap procedure. The TRAM Flap, or Transverse Rectus Abdominous Myocutaneous flap: is a type of reconstructive surgery where fat and muscle from the abdomen are used to recreate breast tissue.
The main advantages of a TRAM flap include:
- One-stage reconstruction to re-create the breast to its full volume
- Utilises your own natural tissues
- Permanent and long lasting reconstruction – does not require change or replacement compared to implants
- Looks and feels natural
- Moves and age with your body
- Provides best symmetry with a natural breast on the other side
Although the operating time and recovery period is longer than my original surgery, it is a one-stage reconstruction that gives an instant permanent result with your own natural tissue.
I’ll be thinking of Elle tonight and all day tomorrow and sending her all the pain-free vibes I can muster.
She’s an amazing woman and deserves a trouble free, pain free speedy recovery. We all love you to the moon and back Elle, can’t wait to support you through your journey. xxxx